NPL - Day 5
Today's Lifestyle has become such that we don't give priority to Relations and Emotions.
If there is a thread with a knot in it, what do you do? Do you think of slowly removing the knot or do you think of cutting the thread with scissors? The first thing that might come to our mind is to cut the knot with scissors, however, we must try to slowly remove the knot before cutting the thread. Likewise, We should not break our relationships for small issues, but try to maintain them.
Three friends came back to their apartment that was on the 50th floor. They were climbing the stairs telling stories to each other. The first friend told a story till he reached the 20th floor. The other friend told a story till they reached the 40th floor. Now came the turn of the last friend. He said, " I am telling you a real story. But promise me that you will not scold me or hit me after listening to me. I have forgotten the keys downstairs. So please forgive me" Similarly, in our life we have achieved everything and reached the top, but where is the key?Happiness is the key. Even after achieving everything in life we are not happy.
The following are the conditions to make sure that we maintain our relations and not break them easily.
1. THANKSGIVING:
How many times in our life have we thanked our parents for bringing us up? How many times do we thank the Sun for the sun light? Do we thank our parents, sister, brother, wife, husband for everything they do for us? Did we ever thank our driver for taking us safely to our destination? Make it a point to thank everyone in your life who has contributed for your well being. Thank God, your Parents, your family members and everyone who makes a difference in your life.
An auto driver feels good when a man thanks him for driving his family safely to his destination and says that no one has ever thanked me in my 35 years of driving. But now I have come to know how many life's are dependent on me. So from today I promise that I will not drink and drive.
If we count how many favors people have done on us, we can definitely write a book of 400 pages. But how many favors have we done for others? A tree never tells No to a bird that eats it fruits everyday.In the same way, we must express our gratitude to God and everyone for all the good things in our life.Saying Thank You is not a formality, it must come from our heart.
2. SAY SORRY:
When you have done something wrong and you know it is your mistake, do not hesitate in accepting it and saying Sorry for what you have done. When Marasaheb writes a book, before publishing it, he gives it to the proof reader to prevent mistakes in the book. If someone points out at our mistake, we get aggressive and we do not accept it because of our Ego. We think of directly attacking the person, however, if we say Sorry even our enemies can become our friends. If our house is on fire and our enemy brings a bucket of water to help us, do we think that he is our enemy and don't accept his help? At that point, we don't see whether he is a friend or enemy who is helping us. We definitely need his help. While walking on the road, if you fall in a pit, do you wait for a friend to come and help you? No. We are ready to take anyone's help. If there is a conflict between to people, they do not eat food with each other and stop talking with each other. But when ever we are in friendship, we start with sharing a cup of tea.
"An apology is a good way to have the last word"
3. GIVE A SMILE:
A smile costs nothing. So give a smile when you meet someone.
Suppose we are not in a good mood and suddenly someone comes asking fund for charity, then we must greet him with a smile. If someone comes to us for charity, it means we can help them because of our goodwill.
9+9 = 18, 9/9 = 1, 9-9 = 0, 9x9 = 81.
The limit here is 81, however, if we believe in God and trust him he will make it 99 by removing all the symbols in between.
"There are so many turns in our life and on every turn life brings us a question. We keep searching for answers, once we get the answer, life brings us a new question."
"A smile is a curve that sets everything straight."
4. SAY PLEASE :
When we talk to someone, we must use the word "Please". We can get our work done by requesting rather than ordering. A father ordered his son to bring a glass of water. The son asks his father if he knows Gandhiji. The father asks his son why is he talking about Gandhiji and again orders him to bring water. The son says that Gandhiji used to do his own work. As the father did not request his son to bring water, he gave an example about Gandhiji. "If you mean to profit learn to please."
5. LOVE:
The most beautiful gift of God is Love. A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge and truest wisdom. When someone who is far away wants to come to you and someone who is near you does not want to leave you and go, that is truest love. For eg. There is a family of 72 members living together under one roof. They are so bonded with love that all the 72 members go together on any tour. This shows the love and affection towards each other.
These are the five super powers of our life which are free of cost. So lets imply this in our lifestyle.
"Faith makes all things possible, Love makes all things easy"
Today's Lifestyle has become such that we don't give priority to Relations and Emotions.
If there is a thread with a knot in it, what do you do? Do you think of slowly removing the knot or do you think of cutting the thread with scissors? The first thing that might come to our mind is to cut the knot with scissors, however, we must try to slowly remove the knot before cutting the thread. Likewise, We should not break our relationships for small issues, but try to maintain them.
Three friends came back to their apartment that was on the 50th floor. They were climbing the stairs telling stories to each other. The first friend told a story till he reached the 20th floor. The other friend told a story till they reached the 40th floor. Now came the turn of the last friend. He said, " I am telling you a real story. But promise me that you will not scold me or hit me after listening to me. I have forgotten the keys downstairs. So please forgive me" Similarly, in our life we have achieved everything and reached the top, but where is the key?Happiness is the key. Even after achieving everything in life we are not happy.
The following are the conditions to make sure that we maintain our relations and not break them easily.
1. THANKSGIVING:
How many times in our life have we thanked our parents for bringing us up? How many times do we thank the Sun for the sun light? Do we thank our parents, sister, brother, wife, husband for everything they do for us? Did we ever thank our driver for taking us safely to our destination? Make it a point to thank everyone in your life who has contributed for your well being. Thank God, your Parents, your family members and everyone who makes a difference in your life.
An auto driver feels good when a man thanks him for driving his family safely to his destination and says that no one has ever thanked me in my 35 years of driving. But now I have come to know how many life's are dependent on me. So from today I promise that I will not drink and drive.
If we count how many favors people have done on us, we can definitely write a book of 400 pages. But how many favors have we done for others? A tree never tells No to a bird that eats it fruits everyday.In the same way, we must express our gratitude to God and everyone for all the good things in our life.Saying Thank You is not a formality, it must come from our heart.
2. SAY SORRY:
When you have done something wrong and you know it is your mistake, do not hesitate in accepting it and saying Sorry for what you have done. When Marasaheb writes a book, before publishing it, he gives it to the proof reader to prevent mistakes in the book. If someone points out at our mistake, we get aggressive and we do not accept it because of our Ego. We think of directly attacking the person, however, if we say Sorry even our enemies can become our friends. If our house is on fire and our enemy brings a bucket of water to help us, do we think that he is our enemy and don't accept his help? At that point, we don't see whether he is a friend or enemy who is helping us. We definitely need his help. While walking on the road, if you fall in a pit, do you wait for a friend to come and help you? No. We are ready to take anyone's help. If there is a conflict between to people, they do not eat food with each other and stop talking with each other. But when ever we are in friendship, we start with sharing a cup of tea.
"An apology is a good way to have the last word"
3. GIVE A SMILE:
A smile costs nothing. So give a smile when you meet someone.
Suppose we are not in a good mood and suddenly someone comes asking fund for charity, then we must greet him with a smile. If someone comes to us for charity, it means we can help them because of our goodwill.
9+9 = 18, 9/9 = 1, 9-9 = 0, 9x9 = 81.
The limit here is 81, however, if we believe in God and trust him he will make it 99 by removing all the symbols in between.
"There are so many turns in our life and on every turn life brings us a question. We keep searching for answers, once we get the answer, life brings us a new question."
"A smile is a curve that sets everything straight."
4. SAY PLEASE :
When we talk to someone, we must use the word "Please". We can get our work done by requesting rather than ordering. A father ordered his son to bring a glass of water. The son asks his father if he knows Gandhiji. The father asks his son why is he talking about Gandhiji and again orders him to bring water. The son says that Gandhiji used to do his own work. As the father did not request his son to bring water, he gave an example about Gandhiji. "If you mean to profit learn to please."
5. LOVE:
The most beautiful gift of God is Love. A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge and truest wisdom. When someone who is far away wants to come to you and someone who is near you does not want to leave you and go, that is truest love. For eg. There is a family of 72 members living together under one roof. They are so bonded with love that all the 72 members go together on any tour. This shows the love and affection towards each other.
These are the five super powers of our life which are free of cost. So lets imply this in our lifestyle.
"Faith makes all things possible, Love makes all things easy"
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